Let’s push back to restore the healer’s touch
by Jany Moussa, MD —
Over the years I’ve noticed a quiet shift in how patients perceive us. Increasingly they see us not as healers but as part of a system – sometimes even as businesspeople managing transactions rather than human lives.
I believe this perception stems from the growing complexity and commercialization of healthcare, where time is short, paperwork is abundant, and the warmth of connection can get lost in the shuffle.
But I also believe we can push back.
One small but meaningful change I’ve made is choosing to meet patients in my office instead of the exam room whenever possible. It’s a softer entry point – less sterile, less intimidating. My office is filled with personal touches: photos of my family, snapshots of me playing keyboard with my band, and a few proud displays of my Kansas City Chiefs and Wichita State Shockers memorabilia. These simple things help patients see me not just as a physician but as a person. And that changes everything.
To make time for deeper, more meaningful conversations during the day, I prepare my clinic notes the evening before while at home. This habit takes extra time, but it allows me to be fully present during visits – able to listen not just to symptoms but to stories, concerns and what truly matters.
I also reconnect with the heart of medicine by volunteering at the Guadalupe Clinic, where I provide specialty nephrology care to underserved patients. It’s a reminder that healing doesn’t always require technology or billing codes – it often begins with simply showing up and listening.
Something beautiful happens when patients see the person behind the profession. Walls come down. Trust builds. Conversations deepen.
As physicians, we carry more than clinical expertise — we carry the power to heal through connection. Let’s reclaim that. Let’s make space for eye contact, for kindness, for sharing a laugh. Let’s remind our patients – and ourselves – that medicine is not just science. It’s also art, humanity and heart.
Ways to reconnect with our patients
Here are a few small steps that can make a big difference in restoring the human side of medicine:
- Use the patient’s name often; it builds familiarity and comfort.
- Start with an open-ended question. “What’s on your mind today?” invites real conversation.
- Sit down during the visit. Even a brief moment at eye level changes how time is perceived.
- End with a personal note. Recall a detail from a past visit or ask, “How can I make your care better?”
- Celebrate small victories. Recognize their efforts, even for things like diet changes or quitting smoking.
- Follow up personally. A MyChart message or short call after tough news can be deeply healing.
- Invite feedback. Ask how your office or approach can better serve their needs.
- Make the environment welcoming. Warm lighting, local art or music can reduce anxiety.
Wishing you meaningful moments with your patients this month.